posted 08-31-2001 14:02            

Eod - N E E D M O N E Y A N D P U R P O S E

then it shall be considered

posted 08-31-2001 16:01            

Never did find that purpose.

Then I dropped out and found my PenIs. I think that in the end it worked out.

-Chris

posted 08-31-2001 17:34            

I remember the night like it was yesterday...

The long hot night, his balding head waxed, the goatee in impecabble form..

and I was a treat at only $50! Let me tell you though... I enjoyed it as much as he did.

posted 08-31-2001 20:36            

The answer is simple: Beer. You NEED beer, and lots of it. Get completely wasted, vent, puke, sob uncontrollably, break shit, foam at the mouth, purge your soul. When you wake up wishing you were dead, everything will make sense.

The last thing in the world you need is to become this girls emotional tampon . What has she shown you about herself that you are certain of besides the propensity to spin yarns for attention?

If your morals are so high, pass completely. It sure as hell doesn't sound like she measures up. I am 100% certain you are doomed if you pursue her.

posted 09-01-2001 04:43            

First, I don't think it's good to actually tell a 18 year old to drink his problems away.
Don't drink it away. I agree its fun to get drunk over it once, but don't make it an habit.
Talking, like mailing to Amazon, are things you must not turn down. It's good to talk about it. GO mail her now. Friends are good mmmmkay? Even if it's online.

Second, I have to agree with Eod, even if I don't know how college life is out there, but I do know it made me much more adult and toughened up my skin 10 times. In (our) college girls/women are indeed much more adult, and don't play around with your feeling so much, just because it's fun. Girls have grown up too about then, and learned to deal with their feelings too, so they don't have to saddle you up with them.

Third, you don't have to have a reason to go to college. College is good, it gets you a better job. You'll learn in college what you're good at and evolve that skill. Find out what you like most in your life. Is it computers? Go find a study in that direction.
You can't expect people to just go to college without ANY interests.

/me stops counting

No money? Work for it. Nothing gives you a better feeling then accomplishing something you worked your fucking ass off for.

I'm not a person to just tell someone to dump that girl, or tell her the fuck off, or do that kind of stuff, because I don't have the guts and don't want to be that rude. I think there are alot more terrible things on your way in life than this. So being so hateful to someone in this early stage of life is not a good thing. Safe that for when you get in real trouble. KNOW that I know exactly the way you are feeling. I've been through it all too. But looking back to it, I feel good that it happened. I learned a lot from it, in a very very good way.
Just hang on there. Try to forget her.

I think it's good to make people around you happy as long you don't forget yourself. You have to be happy yourself in order to make someone else happy. (Hey, I've seen a movie too!)
Damn that was a cheesy line. Scrap that one. Just be who you are.
And you're not weird at all... trust me!

Thats it. More will come when needed
Good luck too you man! Remember, this is just the beginning.

Greets
FaRaN

posted 09-01-2001 11:07            

How you do that is up to you, but its pretty important that you play the field. I really think you need to get some experience under your belt, follow? Being moral about it isn't a bad thing, even though we all know it isn't exactly the most efficient way to go about getting chopped up (heh), because you're setting the groundwork for future relationships. But, you shouldn't be looking for an angel to raise up your spirits and take you away from all the bad, petty people, either. Look for a chick that likes to do at least one thing you like to do (besides sex), and doesn't seem like she's completely evil - that's really the most you can expect out of someone you don't know very well.

posted 09-01-2001 13:03            

quote:

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Originally posted by weis:
"I'm a decent person and worthy of having my dick sucked."

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Truly, a mantra for the ages.

posted 09-01-2001 15:49            

Beer.. pfft.

Heh... perhaps our fate is to be doomed... but I'll try to beat the shit out of fate.

FaRaN - I used to keep everything inside, but now I think all that stuff can't really be added to. Wheeee I wonder if I'm gonna explode?

True about college... but I -want- to know why I wanna go there.

As for work... Let me show you where I've been turned down from.

Oxford Health, Brookstone [ corporate HQ ], Brookstone [ store ], Costo, Electronics Boutique, Gamestop, Radio Shack, Burlington Coat Factory, FYE, Party Time, Ritz Camera, Border's, Barnes and Nobles, The Telegraph, ADT Security, The Comic Book Store, the Library, and Rite-Aid

I also went to a temp agency... nothing from them either. :\

And thanks..

Amazon - True, but I have yet to find one. Kind of anyways, Danyel liked me, even wanted to screw me, but I felt it would regret giving her my virginity since it wasn't going to be for love.

To be honest, I really don't care that much what a girl looks like. But, she has to have nice eyes.

Also, I've been alone for my entire life, so I've grown acustom to it. I just wanna know what it's like to have someone. Oy ::le sigh::

Math sucks unless you are going in a career that uses it... fucking math...

Weis - Heh... I wish I could say I deserve that :P True... maybe I shall...

posted 09-01-2001 16:58           

a) who the hell cares? dude trust me take a few pills or smoke some pot, whatever fly's for you and just enjoy what is happening

b) in general alot of people just suck ass, so learn to sit back and laugh at them like i do, if someone fucks with you laugh at them cuz they think they're fuckin you over and you know that their just providing entertainment.

posted 09-01-2001 17:21            

It's funny to make sarcastic and witty comments and sibtle put-downs as you watch thier ego crumble.

I could never do that...

posted 09-01-2001 19:56         

But hey, it looks like Demon has a strong enough sense of self that he's smart enough not to take everyone's advice here.

Demon: I'm not going to give advice. But there are more answers if you search in the right place.

posted 09-01-2001 23:04            

Flashdim - G'Luck...

posted 09-02-2001 06:51            

quote:

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Originally posted by Demon-of-Elru:
in c's - Why would I want to take drugs? I'd rather face the shit in my life than to run away like a coward.

It's funny to make sarcastic and witty comments and sibtle put-downs as you watch thier ego crumble.

I could never do that...

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posted 09-02-2001 13:29            

Anyways, she and I have been talking and I guess we are back together. Kinda sorta. Not sure though.

posted 09-04-2001 06:11         

quote:

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Originally posted by Demon-of-Elru:
I guess we are back together. Kinda sorta.

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sigh.

posted 09-05-2001 02:38            

Do NOT expect anyone, especially a girl, to bring you out of your sorrows and make your life worth living.

First, it's setting yourself up for MAJOR disappointment if it doesn't work out. No girl is perfect and expecting her to be is asking for relationship failure.

And second, you're just begging to be used or trod-upon. Girls can sense this in a guy and some find it awfully tempting to treat him like shit and get away with murder because they know the guy is too starry-eyed to complain much. Strength and happiness has to come from within, not from another person. Keep all your eggs in your own damn basket!

Life is not a soap-opera. Rejection is pretty much a daily fact of life. The key (in my opinion), is to remember what you've got going inside, not take it too terribly personally and live to get rejected another day. In hindsight, most of the guys that have rejected me in the past were trolls not worthy of my time. And in other cases, I would have been better off if they had rejected me in the first place, or vice versa.

Even the greatest relationship is going to have ups and downs. The key is to view them more as bumps in the road than roller coasters. You've gotta see the world in shades of grey instead of black and white or you're going to make yourself nuts with the emotional turmoil you put yourself through over little things.

*stepping off soapbox*

Of course, it's taken me the past 15 years since I hit puberty to come to this realization. And I still occasionally fail at practicing what I preach. But it gets easier with time.

Find yourself a kickass female FRIEND and learn about the twisted inner workings of the female mind without worrying about sex and romance. Kind of like riding a bike with training wheels.